If your invitation says “and guest”, yes, and please give us their name on the reply card. If it does not, we are sorry: the barn seats ninety and not one more.

Yes, all of them. There is a children’s menu, a quiet room off the Long Barn, and lawn games until the light goes.

Tell us on the reply card. The menu already has a vegan and a vegetarian choice for every course, and the kitchen can work around allergies if they know by 1 May.

Please do. Park in the paddock, take the midnight coach, and collect the car by 11am on Sunday. Brunch in the Long Barn is from eleven, if you are back in time.

Then the ceremony moves into the Long Barn and nothing else changes. The lawn is grass either way, so bring shoes you can stand on it in.

Please do not. The ceremony is unplugged: our photographer has it covered, and we would rather see your faces than your phones. Take as many as you like afterwards.